knew I wasn’t supposed to but I just couldn’t resist dunking the
freshly made molasses cookie into my glass of milk.
A History of the
I didn’t intend to let the milk drip down my chin and drop onto the
tablecloth but it did.
I was expecting a lecture from Mum but instead she dunked a cookie into
her cup of tea and remarked, “I haven’t done this for years. It
certainly tastes good.”
As she wiped the milk from her chin, she continued to speak, “My mother
made a terrible fuss when we girls did this. But we did it when she
I wonder if the children in Southampton on the Saint John River enjoyed
milk and cookies?
According to Ruth Winona Grant’s writings in “Now and Then”, it seemed their
parents had many of the same ideas as mine. For example, they too
thought the number of stars within a moon’s halo determined the number
of days until a storm arrived, plant anything that blooms three days
before the full moon, when one’s right ear tingles, someone has spoken
good of the person, to get out of bed on the left foot is bad luck and
throwing away a piece of bread also brings bad luck.
Among the early grant holders in Southampton area was Tristram
Hillman who had married Ann Lindopp in London, England on 19 Nov. 1777.
On 17 Nov.1784, he landed at St. Andrews accompanied by his wife, three
children, servants and household goods. By 9 Oct. 1785, he was in
Woodstock Parish where he built a large house which was furnished with
the fine furniture brought from England. He drowned in 1788 in the St.
John River. His widow married Anthony Woodland two years later but
things didn’t work out for the couple. In 1806 she was a school
mistress in Northampton - probably the first woman teacher in the upper
St. John valley. Tragedy struck the family again when in 1824 her
daughter-in-law was struck and killed in her home by a bolt of
While reading this book, one gets the feeling the good old days were
not so “good”. One man describes the coldness of the early homes - “The
ink freezes on my pen, and the lather on my shaving brush. The latch of
the door sticks to my hand, and the water has occasionally frozen in my
glass at dinner.” Another expresses in rhyme, the dislike for dried
The river was not only a major means of travel but provided work in one
way or another. Some men worked at ferrying passengers across the
river, others used horse or oxen to tow boats while others worked at
the lumbering business by either cutting, rafting logs or in the
preparation of making trees into lumber. The sawmill workers usually
took their pay in trade from the store that was under the sawmill
The cook books of years ago were named cookery books and held many
necessary recettes (as they were called) for survival, from Poor Man’s
Pudding to Lotion for Chapped Hands.
“The most remarkable building ever built in Southampton was the Grist
Mill in the ravine at the mouth of Farnham Brook, at the Corner.” It
was built by William Brown and was a masterpiece of the Frame-workers
art. It had double braces between the posts in both storeys.
In 1789, the Rev. John Beardsley came up the river from Maugerville and
baptized more than forty persons from the families of Dr. John Larlee,
James Craig, William Guerrier, Peter Newton, Alexander Bate, William
McLaughlan, Anthony Manuel, Christopher Ferro, John Tompkins, William
Hudgins, Jacob Tompkins, Joseph Cunlife and Richard Stears.
An interesting chapter from An Account From Sir George Head’s - 1815
winter journey from Fredericton to Presqueisle, to the Canada Lakes,
written by Raymond provides information on the everyday living and
travelling conditions along the river as well as accommodations or the
lack of them for the weary travellers.
Some of the topics discussed in the book are: The Indian Period,
America Discovered, Colonization, How Southampton was formed, Early
Settlers, Fall Island, Railroads, Communications, Roads, Inns,
How the People Lived, Christmas with the Loyalists, Tow-Boats,
Steamboating, Raftin’ and Runninn’, Ferries, Industries Around
Southampton, Churches, Schools, Organizations, Local Cemeteries,
Cookery Methods, The Pirate Charlie, Weatherwise and Otherwise and
Good-Bye to an Era - all of which help to give the reader a better
understanding of life in the Southampton area, now and then.
The 1967 publication,” Now and Then -
A History of the Southampton Area Along the Saint John River” by
Ruth Winona Grant is available for viewing at the libraries in
Florenceville, Fredericton, Hartland, Moncton, Newcastle,
Perth-Andover, Woodstock and at the Legislative Library in Fredericton.
** Feb 18, 2012 Reprints of Ruth Winona Grant’s books - Now and Then - Bel Viso, The Historic Present -The Grant Connexion and The Grant Connexion Addendum see http://www.rubycusack.com/issue524.html
- Cutler - Titus: Mary Chandler Upham, the daughter of
Jabez Upham and Bethia Cutler, was born in 1797 in Woodstock, Carleton
County, New Brunswick and moved to Upham, Kings County with her
parents, where she married James Titus in 1824. I am interested in
locating photos of Mary Chandler Upham Titus and her siblings.
J. W. TITUS. E-mail email@example.com
- Almon: Who were the parents of John Murray Upham Bliss -
Registrar of Deeds, cousin of Charles G.D. Roberts and Bliss Carmen -
who married Julia Harriet Almon, daughter of the Rev. Canon F. H.
Almon? Baptismal records of daughter, Laleah dated 1888. Listed
abode Richibucto, New Brunswick.
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